Do you ever have “one of those days?” Particularly as a parent? You know, the kind of day where you are thankful for your children, but you can’t quite remember why they are considered a blessing? Yeah, that was my day today, as I continually reminded myself how I couldn’t possibly live without them. However, the day was supported on each end by some really cool events!
It all started about 48 hours ago, when S asked me to check his e-mail for something. One seemed a typical phishing e-mail–the type that tries to get you to click a link and get your personal info. It said we had a check they were trying to send us, but they needed to confirm info. I almost deleted it, but then noticed that the e-mail did NOT contain a link to click, but did contain a good bit of personal info about us already, which got my attention and made me nervous. The signature line included the name and contact information for someone supposedly from the Attorney General’s Office of CO. Rather than responding directly to the e-mail, I decided to investigate. I googled the CO AG’s office, called that number, spoke to the operator, and asked her if a person by the name listed in our e-mail worked there. They did, so I left a message on their voicemail. She called a couple hours later, and turns out it was totally legit! Two years ago, a debt collector trying to find someone else, called our house at 5:30 in the morning, waking us up, and putting S in a REALLY bad mood. Later that day, he filed a complaint with the AG’s office per CO instructions. We never heard another word about it, and totally forgot about it until this person reminded me. Apparently, a few others had done the same, and the AG began an investigation. Recently, the investigation was closed, and the debt collection company was fined a significant sum for breaking CO laws regarding when and who they were allowed to call. Now, the AG office was trying to track down the “victims” of those calls, and send them their portion of the fines. Now, we are expecting a nice, unexpected Christmas bonus!!
Then, yesterday morning started out pretty typical, but after breakfast, R began vomiting. My day’s plans were shot, though I rather enjoyed spending a few hours just laying on the couch with her, bucket handy of course. She slept a few hours, then seemed to improve around lunch time. I kept her on the BRAT diet for most of the day until I was confident she would keep food down.
First thing this morning my little “biggest” rebel, N, who just can’t seem to resist any sort of temptation, snuck a lollipop, gobbled it up, and when I caught him, he flat out lied about it. Of course, the “Very Berry” flavored breath was a dead give-away. As a part of his discipline, I told him he would not be allowed any yummy treats that we were making. Later, the other kids and I made Monkey Bread, and I specifically instructed N not to touch it, and had a discussion with him to ensure he understood what he had done wrong. We fed him a non-sweet snack to at least help him not be hungry. Yet, no sooner did I turn my back, he snuck into the kitchen, and ate the treat. Let’s just say that was his last fun moment of the day, as it got REALLY boring after that.
After my lecture to N, I stood up and turned around to find R drinking out of the dog bowl.
Shortly after, JR reported to me (for the second day in a row) that one of his school books was lost. I threatened him with consequences if he didn’t find it. He eventually found it, but only after half-emptying his school bookshelf all over the floor, crying about it a bit, and insisting it had to be his brothers that misplaced it (it wasn’t). Then, he had trouble with his math, and his entire school day took him over 9 hours with a few breaks in the middle (it should take 3-4). That was followed by an incredibly sore throat that left him unable to eat dinner or speak this evening.
M and A have both suffered a bit of discipline over the last two days due to their seeming inability to listen and follow instruction of late. She was better today, but still had her fair share of arguments with her brothers. A and N have both begun whining a lot, which drives me batty. “Talk like a big boy” has become a common phrase around this house.
As if that wasn’t enough, R, who has been potty training for the last 2 weeks (and doing extremely well), came into the room where I was to see what I was doing. A sudden and unexpected bought of diarrhea hit her, and the next thing I knew, I had stinky mush on my carpet. Got that cleaned up, took a deep breath, and said, “I think I can, I think I can….”
Nap time finally arrived, and I got online to do some Christmas shopping. Shopping for the children when the children haven’t exactly been on their best behavior can be a good thing, actually. I have a feeling it SAVED me quite a bit of money! I did however find a great gift on Craigslist. I contacted S and he arranged to pick the gift up on his way home. We really needed two, but one would suffice for now. He arrived at the persons house, only to find out that they had TWO!! For slightly less than retail price for one, we got TWO awesome gifts for the kids this winter!
S got home, took over the kiddos before my head exploded, and I went and cooked dinner. I read a book to the children for a little while, we ate dinner, and then S put the kids to bed while I went for a jog. I can’t even remember the last time I did that!!! I think it was about the time the number of children outgrew the number of seats in the jogging stroller! Yeah, I really needed to blow off some steam so I could focus on hubby for once today!!
Oh, this is my life. The good, the bad, the exhilirating, the exhausting, and the downright ugly. I guess I need days like this sometimes to keep me humble and remind me that I am NOTHING without Christ. So, despite days like this, I wouldn’t trade it for the world.